Everyone has their own preconception of what a certain girls personality is based on there appearance. You have the rude, "resting bitch face" girl (which is a new expression which is when a girl has her bitch face on for no reason) you have the nice (who aren't usually nice) and you have the real. Most of the time, the "reals" are labeled as the bitches. But, i'm sorry?? Since when is telling it like it is being a bitch? You can be rude about it and, yes, nobody likes a rude girl, but most of the time, if you're being real you're just being real and just speaking your mind.
I like to think of myself as one of those real girls. I am open minded, brave, I wear my heart on my sleeve and I love to be heard. Girls like me are the girls that should be appreciated. But again, only if they are classy and not rude.
But why are we so "mean"? We aren't. Other girls see us as mean because we give them answers that they don't expect to hear. Girls are used to giving the good old, "tell em' what they want to hear" response, this was good in high school. But, when you step into the real world, you want to be honest. It shows your character and personality and that you are a down to earth real person and not some cookie-cutter-bitch who still can't figure out how to fit in because she doesn't wanna say the wrong thing. Well sweet-heart, everything is the wrong thing in this day and age, you just gotta find the right people. The people who are going to be real with you.
**This is my first blog post, i'm not sure if this made sense, and I am not going to proof read it either. I am just going to stand by it for being my first blog post.
***This is how i feel and that is all.
****Tomorrow may be different and that may be good.
August 16, 2015.
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